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Our Club

Welcome to the Lifestyle

A private, members-only community built on connection, trust and respect

About Our Club

A Private, Members-Only Social Space

Our club is a private, members-only social space designed for open-minded adults who are curious about or actively participate in the lifestyle community.

The lifestyle is built around connection, trust, respect, and exploration between consenting adults. Whether you are completely new, simply curious, or experienced within the community, our goal is to provide a safe, inclusive, and judgement-free environment where people can socialise, learn, and enjoy unique experiences together.

We believe that education, communication, and mutual respect are the foundation of every positive lifestyle experience.


Open Minds

What Is the Lifestyle?

The lifestyle — often referred to as “swinging” — is a consensual social dynamic where couples and individuals explore social and intimate connections outside traditional relationship norms.

For many members, the lifestyle is not only about intimacy, but about:

  • Meeting like-minded people
  • Strengthening relationships through openness and communication
  • Building friendships and community
  • Enjoying a sophisticated adult social environment
  • Personal exploration in a respectful setting

Participation always happens at your own comfort level. Many members attend purely for the social atmosphere.


Experiences You Can Expect

Every visit is unique, but guests typically enjoy:

Social Evenings

Relaxed gatherings where members connect over drinks, conversation, music, and themed events. Many guests attend simply to socialise and meet others within the community.

Themed Events & Parties

From elegant dress-up evenings to relaxed poolside events, our calendar offers diverse experiences designed to encourage interaction in a comfortable environment.

Private & Shared Spaces

Our venue offers carefully designed areas allowing members to choose the level of privacy or social interaction that suits them.

Education & Discovery

For newcomers especially, the club provides an opportunity to learn about lifestyle etiquette, communication, and boundaries in a supportive setting.


Lifestyle Principles

The lifestyle operates on a clear set of shared values.

Consent Above All

Every interaction requires enthusiastic, mutual consent. “No” is always respected immediately and without question.

Respect & Courtesy

Members treat one another with kindness, discretion, and maturity.

No Pressure Environment

There is never an expectation to participate beyond your comfort level. Observing, socialising, or simply enjoying the atmosphere is completely acceptable.

Communication Is Key

Honest discussion between partners and with other members creates positive and respectful experiences.

Discretion & Privacy

What happens within the club remains private. Members value confidentiality and personal boundaries.


House Rules

Lifestyle Etiquette & Rules

To maintain a safe and welcoming environment, all members agree to follow our club guidelines.

Club Etiquette Overview

  1. Consent Is Mandatory. Always ask before initiating any interaction. Consent must be clear, ongoing, and mutual.
  2. Respect Personal Boundaries. Every individual and couple has different comfort levels. Boundaries are to be honoured at all times.
  3. No Means No — Immediately. Rejection is never personal. Respectful acceptance is part of lifestyle culture.
  4. Hygiene & Presentation. Members are expected to maintain high standards of personal hygiene and appropriate attire in line with event themes.
  5. Phones & Photography. Photography and recording are strictly prohibited to protect member privacy.
  6. Discretion Outside the Club. Members respect each other’s anonymity and do not discuss identities or experiences publicly.
  7. Positive Conduct. Harassment, intoxication that affects behaviour, or disrespectful conduct will not be tolerated.

Full house rules and etiquette guidelines are provided to all members upon acceptance of their membership application.


Newcomers Welcome

New to the Lifestyle?

Feeling nervous is completely normal.

Many first-time guests discover that the lifestyle community is welcoming, friendly, and far more relaxed than expected. We encourage newcomers to:

  • Attend social events first
  • Ask questions
  • Take things slowly
  • Communicate openly with partners
  • Observe and learn at your own pace

There is no “right way” to participate — your experience is entirely your own.


Your Wellbeing

Safety & Comfort

Your safety and comfort are our highest priorities. Our team works to ensure:

  • A secure, controlled entry environment
  • Clear behavioural standards
  • Supportive hosts available during events
  • An atmosphere grounded in mutual respect

Our Community

It’s All About the People

Above all, our club is about people — mature adults seeking connection, freedom of expression, and shared experiences within a respectful community.

Whether you come to socialise, explore, or simply satisfy curiosity, you are welcome to experience the lifestyle in a space built on trust, discretion, and enjoyment.


Exclusive Membership

Ready to Join?

Club Amsterdam is a private, members-only club. Membership is by application only — ensuring our community remains safe, respectful and exclusive. Couples and singles are welcome.