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Membership

A private, members-only lifestyle community built on safety, discretion and respect

Membership

Join the Community

Our club is a private members-only lifestyle venue, created to ensure safety, discretion, and a comfortable environment for everyone.

Membership allows us to maintain a respectful community of like-minded adults who value privacy, consent, and positive social interaction.

All members are required to register a profile on the Club Amsterdam website, which will be used in order for you to register for events. All profiles will require to include a verified photo when registering which will then be hidden in the backend of the site and is only accessible to admins.


Who Joins?

Our Members

Our members include:

  • Couples exploring together
  • Confident singles
  • Lifestyle newcomers
  • Experienced lifestyle participants
  • Professionals seeking a discreet social escape

You do not need experience — only respect, maturity, and an open mind.


What Membership Includes

Three tiers designed for every level of involvement.

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Tier 1 — Free

R0.00

  • Access to website
  • Events and bookings online

Tier 2

R150.00 per month

  • Access to website and 15 messages to other member profiles
  • Events and bookings online
  • Access to member profiles
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Tier 3

R999.00 per month

  • Exclusive lifestyle events
  • Entry to themed parties and social evenings for the month
  • A safe, vetted community environment
  • Unlimited access to messages and member profiles
  • 10% discount on alcohol
  • Discreet and professional hosting team support

Newcomers Welcome

First-Time Guests

Feeling nervous? You’re not alone.

Many members join simply to socialise, observe, and learn about the lifestyle before participating further. There is never any expectation beyond enjoying yourself.

Your comfort level always leads the experience.


Our Standards

Membership Principles

We carefully cultivate an environment that is:

  • Respectful
  • Inclusive
  • Discreet
  • Consent-driven
  • Judgement-free

Membership approval helps protect the experience for everyone.


Frequently Asked Questions

First-timer friendly — everything you need to know before your first visit.

The lifestyle refers to a consensual adult social community where open-minded individuals and couples explore connection, attraction, and social freedom in a respectful environment.

For many members, it’s primarily about community, confidence, and shared experiences.

Absolutely not.

Many guests attend purely for the atmosphere, social interaction, or curiosity. Participation is always optional and entirely personal.

Yes. Safety and consent are the foundation of our club culture.

We enforce strict behavioural standards, host supervision, and membership screening to maintain a comfortable and respectful space.

Most first-time guests experience:

  • A welcoming social environment
  • Friendly conversation and introductions
  • A relaxed but sophisticated party atmosphere
  • Opportunities to learn lifestyle etiquette

There is no pressure — observing is completely normal.

Dress codes vary by event but generally encourage:

  • Stylish
  • Confident
  • Elegant
  • Sexy without being explicit

Think upscale nightlife with personality.

Yes. We welcome approved singles and couples, depending on event guidelines and membership balance.

No photography or recording is permitted anywhere inside the venue. Member privacy is strictly protected.

Consent is everything.

Every interaction must be invited, mutual, and respected immediately. Our community thrives on clear communication and personal boundaries.

Absolutely. Discretion is a core lifestyle value. Members respect anonymity both inside and outside the club.


Exclusive Membership

Ready to Apply?

Take the first step towards joining one of South Africa's most exclusive private lifestyle clubs. We look forward to welcoming you.